Monday, 29 November 2010

THE BLAME GAME

Once again November has been a great month, the weather did affect our last workshop but we still had great numbers and a good day was had by all. John Awesome Anderson went over pre-emptive strikes as well as Matty and myself doing our regular teaching.
Geoff Thompson and Peter Conserdines course was also a good day with Peter picking out one of our black belts (Robbo) for special praise.
The next grading in the Real Combat System will be December 18Th early booking is recommended.
Recently I have been working very hard on my internal game and a big part of that is not blaming others. The only thing that I can control is me! if I am trying to control you then that is completely wrong and usually comes from a place of fear.
Notice when ever you point a finger at someone how many of your fingers point back towards you.
Its all about me or in your own case its all about you, I can only control me and even that is hard sometimes.
You may not like me but I cant help that its important that I like me, if you call me a twat and deep down I believe that I am a twat then your words will hurt. However if I know that I am not a twat which by the way I do then your words or accusations will roll of my back like water off a ducks back.
Its more important how I see myself and to do that I must learn to understand myself and then to love myself and also to forgive myself. We are all human and humans make mistakes.

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